I'm an introvert
... despite some people's first impressions. I don't mind meeting new people or talking to strangers on the bus. Introversion doesn't always mean social shyness, I think there are still misconceptions about this. I'm still a human being who thrives better as a social species. I enjoy solitude and having a 1-on-1 conversation. Sharing laughs with a group of my close friends would be the cherry on top.
Learning new ideas, concepts, and perspectives through reading is my favorite pasttime activity. I love the feeling when it clicks, when I delve deep into my interests: exploring, creating, asking questions, finding answers, and synthesizing patterns. Aside from writing, reading, and city-cycling, I also enjoy watching movies and listening to experts (documentaries, talks, etc.), particularly on simplifying complex concepts.
I adore slow-living 🐌
The first time I realized that I don't prefer living in a fast-paced environment was when I got stuck in traffic. For 15 minutes. On a motorcycle. In Yogyakarta.
"Itu bukan macet, Ren, itu namanya ngantre (that's not traffic, Ren, that's a queue line)" said a friend, wealthy of experience from the busy capital. I couldn't agree more. I can certainly handle high-pressure schedules when necessary, but I'll always prefer a more intentional pace.
I'm a somewhat minimalist
Hoard is painful to watch. Goodbye, Things is one of my favorite book. To quote Alice, one Goodreads user: "It felt very cleansing, like taking a shower at the end of a long day." I try to be mindful and deliberate of the things I own.
Sharing some tips from the book:
If you lost it, would you buy it again? If you don't remember owning it, you probably don't need it.
Stop thinking that you would need it "someday". That someday might never come. If it does come irregularly, consider borrowing or renting.
I try to care deeply about little
Commit to a few people who are dear to me, doing things one by one, holding up priorities. I once tried to pursue them all at once and it didn't end up pretty. I don't want to spend my remaining years living insincere life.
The small stuffs:
I love to drink tea. The sweet ones. It's an obsession. My coworkers love to (lovingly) remind me about my sugar consumption. I'm keeping it in check I promise.
I dislike spicy foods. This makes me a minority in a spice-loving (an understatement) country like Indonesia. I only feel the burns on my tongue; it extinguished any other taste of texture and seasonings, thus the act of eating becomes an unpleasant experience.
I believe in mercy and non-violence, but this quote still challenges me from time to time.
I no longer have social media presence since 2021. It just became too much noise to manage and mentally exhausting. I still keep Pinterest for dogs meme and LinkedIn to bait recruiters.
Movies I enjoy the most are often of ensemble cast, action, crime, comedy. Psychological thriller is okay too. No supernatural horror, its visual lingers in my head and drives me paranoid.
I watch Lord of the Rings once a year then feel the urge to follow-up with The Hobbit, the cycle goes on. The energy, dedication, skills, and enthusiasm the acting unit and production team put on were beyond, everyone gave their 300%.
After years of vaguely describing my favorite music preference, I've come to terms with: miserable lyrics, (rather) cheerful beats. In general I tend to enjoy music with energizing vibe, genres and languages don't matter much.
I'd listen to any of their songs on shuffle: Highlight (formerly B2ST) | BtoB | Monkey Majik | Homemade Kazoku | Maiko Fujita | Kana Nishino | Unlimited tone | 安儿陈 | 西瓜JUN | CNBlue | 2BiC | B.A.P | MLTR | Avril Lavigne | Epik High | Bruno Mars | Marcy